It happens every time after I return from a mission trip, and it doesn't matter if it's an overseas trip or if we stayed state-side. There's a culture shock that hits me a few days later right at home when I least expect it.
This morning while worshiping with the body of UBC, I was standing in the choir loft singing my heart out, when I looked around and felt my heart drop. I was enjoying a fellowship so sweet, and yet I had just spent a week with people who would fall into one of the following two categories:
1) They desperately long for a family to worship with each week like that
2) They have no idea of the joy that they are missing
Why do we often treat our blessing of this gathering so casually, when there are millions of people in the world who are longing to share in it? Specifically, why are we meeting without passion when 98.4 percent of New England needs that fellowship?
As I was working through those thoughts, we started singing O the Blood, and then we sang In Christ Alone. I started having faces flash through my mind of those we met and talked with this week. So many people who could not sing the words of those songs honestly, and in many cases probably don't even have a head knowledge of what they mean. I thought specifically of Sham, who when asked how he viewed God, said, "He is gracious." We sang these words:
O what love, no greater love. Grace, how can it be? That in my sin, yes, even then, He shed His blood for me.
THAT is what grace really means! My heart longs for him to know that, to experience that grace in his life, and to fall on his face and worship his Prophet, his Priest, his King! Our own hearts need to be continually gripped by that truth. Our hearts need to deal with that reverse culture shock every day - because this world is not our home. We are living in a foreign culture every single day, and we should live as radically as that makes us feel.

Sunday, March 27, 2011
Friday, March 25, 2011
Our Adventure in the Northeast - Part VII
It's a late night tonight as I write this, but it has been a full and fruitful day. I'm typing this as I watch the Kentucky basketball game with Ryan, so if there are typos, frequent lapses of focus are the reason. :-)
As I mentioned yesterday, we spent the entirety of the day with Russell and Cynthia again today. They have been so gracious in giving of their time to our team, and we have definitely bonded as friends and in Christian fellowship over the last two days. Russell drove us this morning to a community called New Britton, which is a few minutes southwest of downtown Hartford. There, we toured the campus of Central Connecticut State University. The students there were on Spring Break, so there weren't many people to talk to, but we did find a few student employees working the information desk that were able to give insight on the campus. This is a university founded by members of the Jewish community, and many Jewish students attend here. Naturally, then, there are several different Jewish organizations on the campus.
The girls at the desk here told us that while there is great outflow from the university to the community through internships, jobs, community service, etc., there is not much of a presence of the community itself on the campus. We asked some leading questions to determine the reason for that, specifically related to the presence of a church or a Christian organization, but they indicated that there is not a great need for that because the university itself provides so many resources to students. Pray that the Lord would raise someone up to penetrate this campus with the Gospel!
After spending some time in conversation with Russell and then prayer walking a bit of the campus, we drove to Storrs, Connecticut, home of the UConn Huskies. The small rural community of Storrs is where Russell and Cynthia live, and they were gracious to invite us into their home for lunch. It was so nice to have simple homemade sandwiches after eating out for a full week!
Following our lunch there, we drove to another community called Willimantic, Connecticut. This lower-to-middle-class town is the home of Eastern Connecticut State University (we've covered all but the north and west this week!). Again, the students here were on Spring Break, so we only took time to drive through the campus in order to make some general observations about the surroundings. As was the case yesterday, many of the areas we saw today looked much like Fayetteville, and all three campuses were laid out and had a feel very much similar to the University of Arkansas. If only we could get the temperatures to look the same right about now! Really, though, we've been blessed the last two days with sunny skies, and while still very cool, it's been much more pleasant than it could have been.
The whole day was building our excitement to see the University of Connecticut, and especially for Ryan and me because of the fame of its basketball programs. :-) Before our hosts would take us on campus, though, they forced us to have some of the agriculture department's dairy bar ice cream, which was some of the best I've had. Forced could perhaps be the wrong word here!
Russell and Cynthia showed us around the Alumni Center, which is where their church plant, The Bridge, meets every Sunday night. Because this is largely a commuter school, they have found that more students are in town on Sunday night than would be Sunday morning, though they do host a Bible study on Sunday mornings in the Student Union. They have been meeting for three years, and have grown to having 30 attenders on a consistent basis. Russell and Cynthia will be leaving this church at the end of the semester, though, so pray that God would raise up another leader to carry on the work here.
We spent some time seeking out conversations and prayer walking on the campus before heading back to Russell and Cynthia's house, and debriefed with them for a while before dinner. They had invited a few of their church members to join us, and five of them were able to come. We enjoyed so much getting to share with them about how God is leading us as a church, and to hear their hearts about this church and community as well.
Ryan and I were particularly blessed to share in a few extra moments tonight with Russell and Cynthia, as they gave encouragement to us as a couple in the joys and struggles of a ministry marriage. We were blessed to pray together with them for God's guidance in both couples' lives in the near future. Please pray with us to that end as well.
We'll meet as a team of six tomorrow morning for brunch and a final debrief before leaving Brant and the Northeast as we return home. It's been a great week, and we're eager to see how God works through this team and through UBC as we proceed forward with church planting. Thanks for reading along with us this week! I doubt that I will post anything tomorrow night, as we'll be arriving back in Fayetteville late, but keep watching the blog for future updates on the life of this project and in the life of the Martins!
PS - The Kentucky Wildcats are now in the Elite Eight . . . makes for a very happy ride home tomorrow!
As I mentioned yesterday, we spent the entirety of the day with Russell and Cynthia again today. They have been so gracious in giving of their time to our team, and we have definitely bonded as friends and in Christian fellowship over the last two days. Russell drove us this morning to a community called New Britton, which is a few minutes southwest of downtown Hartford. There, we toured the campus of Central Connecticut State University. The students there were on Spring Break, so there weren't many people to talk to, but we did find a few student employees working the information desk that were able to give insight on the campus. This is a university founded by members of the Jewish community, and many Jewish students attend here. Naturally, then, there are several different Jewish organizations on the campus.
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Central Connecticut State University |
After spending some time in conversation with Russell and then prayer walking a bit of the campus, we drove to Storrs, Connecticut, home of the UConn Huskies. The small rural community of Storrs is where Russell and Cynthia live, and they were gracious to invite us into their home for lunch. It was so nice to have simple homemade sandwiches after eating out for a full week!
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CCSU Campus (the building on the right is meant to resemble a lighthouse) |
The whole day was building our excitement to see the University of Connecticut, and especially for Ryan and me because of the fame of its basketball programs. :-) Before our hosts would take us on campus, though, they forced us to have some of the agriculture department's dairy bar ice cream, which was some of the best I've had. Forced could perhaps be the wrong word here!
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Best ice cream in Connecticut! |
We spent some time seeking out conversations and prayer walking on the campus before heading back to Russell and Cynthia's house, and debriefed with them for a while before dinner. They had invited a few of their church members to join us, and five of them were able to come. We enjoyed so much getting to share with them about how God is leading us as a church, and to hear their hearts about this church and community as well.
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A graphic representation of the religious diversity of the UConn Campus |
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University of Connecticut |
We'll meet as a team of six tomorrow morning for brunch and a final debrief before leaving Brant and the Northeast as we return home. It's been a great week, and we're eager to see how God works through this team and through UBC as we proceed forward with church planting. Thanks for reading along with us this week! I doubt that I will post anything tomorrow night, as we'll be arriving back in Fayetteville late, but keep watching the blog for future updates on the life of this project and in the life of the Martins!
PS - The Kentucky Wildcats are now in the Elite Eight . . . makes for a very happy ride home tomorrow!
Thursday, March 24, 2011
Our Adventure in the Northeast - Part VI
Hartford, Connecticut |
Upon arriving in Hartford, we met up with Russell and his wife, Cynthia. They are former IMB missionaries who are now leading a small campus church at UConn. They spent the rest of the day with us, driving us into the downtown area and guiding us on a tour of the close surrounding areas. We found that the downtown area of Hartford differs from Providence and New Haven in that it has more of an upscale look and feel, and it doesn't seem as compact as the others did. You'll find parks and "green space" in the Hartford downtown, whereas the other two cities had much more of an industrial feel. That, combined with suburban areas being closer to downtown here than at our previous stops, made Hartford feel more like Fayetteville to the group.
As we drove through town, we quickly drove through St. Joseph's College (a Catholic campus), and also spent some time at the University of Hartford. The U of H feels very much like the U of A, though on a bit of a smaller scale. Our team paired off in groups of two to prayerwalk the campus, and to seek opportunities for conversation. God graciously provided each team member with at least one of those opportunities, for which we are all very grateful.
The University of Hartford Campus |
From that campus, we went to Trinity College, which is a few miles away. This was founded as an Episcopalian college, although the congregational church at the time of its founding forced the college to establish that it would not impose its Episcopalian beliefs upon the students. This holds true today, but the college architecture is full of Catholic-looking symbols. The chapel itself is very beautiful on the outside, but the inside is almost Gothic in appearance and is far from a welcoming place of worship. The students here were on Spring Break, but Brant and Jennifer were able to meet a sophomore rowing student (Chris), who recently became a believer and is desperate for a place to find discipleship and growth in his walk with the Lord. He and Brant also exchanged information, so pray that a relationship can be developed there, and that Chris would find a place to worship with other believers.
Trinity College Chapel |
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Trinity College Campus |
Beautiful architecture at Trinity College |
The whole group then met with Joe Fisher, who is in the process of planting a church in the downtown area. He is currently leading a group of about 20, with plans for a more formal initial gathering on Easter Sunday. He shared more valuable information about the community as a whole, and about what church planting would look like in Hartford. From he and all others we have talked to, we have heard that the traditional southern church-planting model just would not work here. Planting a church takes relationships, time, involvement in the community, time, support from your sending church, and time. Pray that this is something that we will be able to clearly communicate to the body of UBC upon our return, as we seek how the process would look for us.
The site of Jonathan Edwards' famous sermon: "Sinners in the Hands of an Angry God" |
Tomorrow, we will spend another day, our final full day in the Northeast, with Russell and Cynthia, who have been so gracious to give up their time to host us here in Hartford. We will spend time in some outlying cities, as well as visiting the UConn campus and meeting some of the members of their church, The Bridge.
Thank you for your continued prayers!
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Our Adventure in the Northeast - Part V
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New England Water (seen through the fog)! |
We had our earliest morning yet today, as we met for breakfast with Tim, a Connecticut church planting strategist and pastor. He was able to give us some significant on-paper information about each of our Connecticut areas that will be useful as we look to the right neighborhood in which to plant a church. He spent some time driving us around the city, showing us the University of New Haven and the surrounding suburban areas.
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The entrance to Yale |
For lunch, we met with Andy, who is the Director of Collegiate Ministries for the New England Baptist Convention (quite the title!). He shared more specifically about ministering to campuses, which is something we have really focused on as we look to plant another "University Baptist Church," or at least a similar model by another name perhaps.
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Yale University Campus |
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Southern Connecticut State University |
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Our Adventure in the Northeast - Part IV
We've reached the halfway point in our trip, and it's starting to show. We had another great day of meetings and ministry, but we're tired. Our day started out early, though, so it's warranted.
We left Providence early this morning and made good time to New Haven. I was expecting one of two things of New Haven, and neither of them was true. First, I thought it would be much more of a suburban town than a big-city kind of place. Well, it's a big-city kind of place. My second option was that it would be a lot like Providence, but that's not really the case either. Both of these cities are similar in size to Fayetteville in population, but they look so different. They're very business-looking, right off of the interstate with lots of high-rise buildings. There's definitely that "inner-city" downtown feel in New Haven, really more so than in Providence.
We arrived in town early for our lunch meeting, so we spent a bit of time driving around the downtown area. It's an atmosphere that is so very unfamiliar to me, and it's hard to know how to react to it. The Yale campus is right in the middle of downtown, but it stands out significantly amongst the high-rise businesses and condos. The buildings are old, classical and full of character. It's really a beautiful little community to itself right in the middle of a big city area.
We met for lunch with Cat, who is a Young Life coordinator here in New Haven. She is a Yale graduate and has been a resident of the area for the last four years, so she was able to give us a lot of helpful insight into the community as a whole. She expressed that the university and community don't get along well at all, outside of the fact that Yale is the largest employer in the city. Many of the students never leave campus, as our own team members experienced when asking students for simple directions within the city. She also explained the huge diversity that is experienced in the town, as you can find mansions and projects within a couple of blocks of each other. Another big thing she shared with us is that this community does not at all value community. In fact, she said it's a concept completely foreign to many of them. She said that the parents of some of her kids might be neighbors but don't know each other at all. There is a significant need to teach and encourage community living in this area.
We had another hour in between meetings, so we spread out and surveyed the downtown area as much as we could. As was explained in our meeting later, the people here will rarely make eye contact with you on the street, and will hardly ever say hello . . . even if you say hello to them. We all experienced that in our brief time there. We were able to make a couple of contacts during that time, including one woman (a lifetime New Haven resident) who just lost her job and requested prayer from our team.
Our final meeting was with Greg, an elder at Trinity Baptist Church in New Haven, and a representative of a Christian campus organization at Yale. He shared the story of his church, which meets in the downtown area and has a congregation of 200, and gave some good insight into the best areas to consider planting a church in the future. We were blessed to pray with him for the town and for God's direction as we seek His will for that or another area with UBC.
Tomorrow will begin early with a breakfast meeting, and will be another full day. Pray that our team can rest well again and that we can all remain healthy for the duration of the trip. Brant will be joining us tomorrow evening, so pray also for his safe travel as he drives up from the New Jersey area.
Unfortunately, I didn't get any pictures of the New Haven area today, but I was able to get the pictures from previous days to post correctly, so go back and check those out!
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Today's only picture...and the view from our hotel window |
Monday, March 21, 2011
Our Adventure in the Northeast - Part III
The outline for today's update is easy: University, Rain, Dunkin' Donuts, Scary Man, Snow, Lunch Meeting, University, Snow, Rain, Snow, Rain, Meeting, Dinner, Dessert, COLD!
1. We began the morning at Johnson & Wales University, one of the top culinary schools in the country (though not only a culinary school). This is the school that Grace Harbor Church has the most relationship with, and where one of their elders serves as college ministry director. We were hoping to get to talk with several students and faculty members there, but the school is locked down pretty tight, so that wasn't really an option. The college students on our team were able to make a couple of brief connections, though, and we're grateful for that.
2. Since we couldn't get on campus and because it had started raining, Ryan and I walked over to a corner Dunkin' Donuts (there's really almost one on every corner) to get warm drinks and to spark up conversation with another customer or two. There, we met Ming, an architecture student from Taiwan. We spoke to Ming for quite a while, and quickly learned that he didn't know much about Christianity at all. Ryan brought the conversation to the Gospel, but Ming didn't seem to want to delve any further into that discussion. Please pray for this young man, who plans to return to his home country when he graduates in 2-3 years.
3. Homelessness is a huge need in this city, and that was apparent to us as we walked around downtown. In fact, right before we walked into the donut shop, a man asked us for money. We didn't give him any, and he proceeded to follow us into the donut shop and then followed us out when we left. I must admit, he scared me a bit, so we walked away quickly and tried to avoid him the rest of the morning, something I now somewhat regret. What if I was homeless? Would I want to be treated like that?
4. Before meeting up with the rest of our team again, it began to snow. It was really windy in the downcity area this morning, so the snow was blowing right at our faces. We were definitely missing the 70-degree temperatures at home!
5. For lunch, we met with Ted, who pastors another church, Downcity Church, in...well, downcity. He's a single guy living in the city, who is extremely passionate about reaching these people for Christ. He's been there for four years now and leads a congregation of about 40 members. As did our meetings yesterday, this provided yet another great time of conversation and learning about church planting. One of the key things I took from our meeting personally was that in the life of a beginning church planter, he is the go-to-guy for anyone with any issues, questions, concerns, etc. Until the church has grown enough to install deacons and elders, the church planter must be prepared to focus a lot of time and effort on the congregation.
6. Parking is not a good option in this city, so you try to find a good spot at the beginning of the day and then walk mostly everywhere you go. From lunch, we walked (in the snow) to Brown University, about two miles or so up from the downcity area. We spent the rest of the afternoon meeting with students and staff members, surveying them for the spiritual needs of the campus and community. We found a great need for an international student ministry, as people from all of the world come to this school, but many have a hard time getting plugged in. While this campus does have a small presence from a local evangelical church, there is still much that could be done to reach these students.
7. Snow, rain, snow, rain...you know the drill.
8. We met in the campus bookstore with Tyler, who is a leading member of one of the Christian organizations on campus. He shared with us a lot about the student body, and provided a good perspective that we hadn't yet received. Tyler explained that Brown University is a constant promoter of tolerance and non-judgmental relationships, which he said allows you to present your faith on campus, although they may just be tolerant of your ideas and may not necessarily be receptive.
9. We ended the evening with a good team debrief dinner and dessert. Providence seems to have a thing with huge desserts. For those who might come to the area in the future, I recommend ordering one serving and requesting several spoons.
10. Pray for us tonight as we warm up and rest. We'll be heading out early in the morning for New Haven, Connecticut. The weather looks to be better tomorrow, which we are looking forward to. We have two different meetings scheduled with campus ministry/church directors, so pray that those meetings are informative and fruitful. Thanks!
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Plotting out the day's plans |
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Johnson & Wales Campus |
2. Since we couldn't get on campus and because it had started raining, Ryan and I walked over to a corner Dunkin' Donuts (there's really almost one on every corner) to get warm drinks and to spark up conversation with another customer or two. There, we met Ming, an architecture student from Taiwan. We spoke to Ming for quite a while, and quickly learned that he didn't know much about Christianity at all. Ryan brought the conversation to the Gospel, but Ming didn't seem to want to delve any further into that discussion. Please pray for this young man, who plans to return to his home country when he graduates in 2-3 years.
3. Homelessness is a huge need in this city, and that was apparent to us as we walked around downtown. In fact, right before we walked into the donut shop, a man asked us for money. We didn't give him any, and he proceeded to follow us into the donut shop and then followed us out when we left. I must admit, he scared me a bit, so we walked away quickly and tried to avoid him the rest of the morning, something I now somewhat regret. What if I was homeless? Would I want to be treated like that?
4. Before meeting up with the rest of our team again, it began to snow. It was really windy in the downcity area this morning, so the snow was blowing right at our faces. We were definitely missing the 70-degree temperatures at home!
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Brown University Bears |
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Brown University Main Green |
6. Parking is not a good option in this city, so you try to find a good spot at the beginning of the day and then walk mostly everywhere you go. From lunch, we walked (in the snow) to Brown University, about two miles or so up from the downcity area. We spent the rest of the afternoon meeting with students and staff members, surveying them for the spiritual needs of the campus and community. We found a great need for an international student ministry, as people from all of the world come to this school, but many have a hard time getting plugged in. While this campus does have a small presence from a local evangelical church, there is still much that could be done to reach these students.
7. Snow, rain, snow, rain...you know the drill.
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Downcity Providence |
9. We ended the evening with a good team debrief dinner and dessert. Providence seems to have a thing with huge desserts. For those who might come to the area in the future, I recommend ordering one serving and requesting several spoons.
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The First Baptist Church in America (founded by Roger Williams) |
10. Pray for us tonight as we warm up and rest. We'll be heading out early in the morning for New Haven, Connecticut. The weather looks to be better tomorrow, which we are looking forward to. We have two different meetings scheduled with campus ministry/church directors, so pray that those meetings are informative and fruitful. Thanks!
Sunday, March 20, 2011
Our Adventure in the Northeast - Part II
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The capitol building in Providence (seen by all four angles tonight, thanks to our GPS!) |
We met Rafael H. at a local "hot-spot" restaurant in Providence last night. I think we were all a bit nervous about our first official meeting with a local church-planter, but we quickly figured out who would lead the conversation and how to engage with each other. It couldn't have been a better meeting to begin the week with. Rafael has been a church planter for more than 30 years, and has been in this area for just about as long. As a result, he had a wealth of information to give us about church-planting in Rhode Island and Connecticut. One of the first bits of info he gave us was the following:
1.6 percent of New England is evangelical. The IMB classifies anything less than 2 percent evangelized as an unreached people group.
This statistic came up again today and has really impacted us as a team. If you consider these populations to be unreached people groups, it really means that a church planter has to be considered a missionary. More on that a few words later . . .
It seemed that with any area or city that we asked Rafael about, he would answer, "Yes, that would be a very good place to plant a church. Mmhmm." There are so few churches - Biblical churches - in these cities, and the need is great.
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Our study at Grace Harbor on Wisdom v. Folly in Proverbs 9 |
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Downcity Providence (and the Ghostbusters building, I hear?) |
After the service, we had lunch downtown with Kevin and Travis, who shared more about their work and answered many of our questions about church-planting in the area. They restated many of the things we heard from Rafael, but also provided new insights, such as information about specific campuses, other churches in the area,etc. They were the ones to really bring out the idea of sending a missionary rather than a church planter, and shared with us what that means for the church back home.
"Church planting is a marathon; not a sprint. The church needs to look their man in the eyes and say, 'You're our guy. We're completely behind you and trust you to do the job well. We're committed to you and to the city for the long haul. It will probably take 7-10 years, but we're in it for that long. Unless you come and tell us that the Lord is moving you or the church plant elsewhere, we're there."
That really stood out to our team tonight, especially as we studied together in 2 Corinthians 4. "Therefore, we do not lose heart." Church planting is not an easy task, especially in the northeast, but it needs to be done. Wherever the Lord leads us, we as a church body at UBC will have to make this much more than a passing interest, but a long-time committed endeavor.
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Our home at Providence College? |
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Providence College - Catholic Chapel |
Saturday, March 19, 2011
Our Adventure in the Northeast - Part I
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Our bulging suitcases |
Five of the six members of our team drove to Tulsa yesterday. Brant, our sixth member, will be joining us on Wednesday - an event Ryan is ready for considering right now he is the only male representative on the team! We had a 6:00am flight out of Tulsa this morning, and were blessed with the hospitality of Trey & Kristen Richardson and her parents, who provided us with a home for the night near the airport. The alarm clock woke us up at 3:45am, which was WAY too early, but it was nice to arrive in Rhode Island early in the day. After getting on the plane headed to Detroit, it took me about 45 minutes to get adjusted to the idea of being 20,000 feet in the air (this happens EVERY time I get on a plane), but thankfully our flights were smooth and the weather was great, with the exception of 32-degree temperatures on the breezeway in Detroit.
Speaking of weather, pray that it's favorable for us this week as we drive from city to city. There's a chance of slight snow on two or three of the days, and we would hate for that to interfere with any of our meetings or time in the city. If it does snow, though, Ryan and I are prepared. We were the only ones to bring a carry-on bag AND a checked bag, probably because we brought so many sweaters, heavy coats and scarves. :-)
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Mission Trip Multi-Tasking |
Our first church-planter meeting is tonight, so we're all getting rested up for that before dinner. We're all excited to get into the "meat" of the week and to see how God works in our team, in our individual lives and in the future of our church. He is definitely at work in each of these three cities, and it is our desire to see what part He might have us play in that as He continues to bring glory to Himself through these people and in these places.
Please pray to that end with us this week - pray for protection as we travel; pray for the Gospel to be evident in our words, our actions and on our faces; pray for unity and fellowship within our team; pray for us to ask the right questions of those that we meet; pray for divine appointments; pray for clear vision and direction; pray for Hartford, Providence and New Haven!
As a complete side note, here are a couple of observations about the Northeast (and/or areas between there and Fayetteville):
- Lake Erie is much bigger than the lakes around Fayetteville.
- Traffic is way too congested. Going for a "short drive down this road" is not an option.
- It's still exciting to see a Walmart, even when you've lived next to one your whole life.
- There is an Indian Pow Wow happening in the conference room of our hotel. The Blue Cloud Moon Tribe is fun to watch.
- The Providence airport REALLY likes the moving sidewalks. Twenty minutes of them just to get a rental car.
- Lake Erie is much bigger than the lakes around Fayetteville.
- Traffic is way too congested. Going for a "short drive down this road" is not an option.
- It's still exciting to see a Walmart, even when you've lived next to one your whole life.
- There is an Indian Pow Wow happening in the conference room of our hotel. The Blue Cloud Moon Tribe is fun to watch.
- The Providence airport REALLY likes the moving sidewalks. Twenty minutes of them just to get a rental car.
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